I do get frustrated at things not happening quickly enough for my liking. My frustrations tend to build up while I am waiting for things to happen. You know what it is like, you finish a specific activity, and then you have to wait around for someone to either do the next bit or come back to you with an answer. You can sit there waiting for a long time or at least that is how it feels to me. Well, I simply don’t do it. So what do we do about this never-ending cycle of hurry up and wait? The truth is that there is not a lot you can do about the need to wait for others to complete their side of the job, so don’t make it an excuse. If business is not going that well or at the pace you would like take ACTION NOW!
If I had a dollar for every time a client told me, “So and so has not responded yet so we can’t move on and we are just waiting for a few more responses before we make the next move”, I would be a millionaire. Sitting around waiting for things to happen is so debilitating. You certainly need to keep the pressure on people to ensure you can close the deal. On the other hand, if you sit around waiting for their response you will begin to doubt their commitment or your product or ability. Have someone in your office be responsible for making those “How are you going?” calls. You don’t need to do it yourself. You need to get back to your action list and keep on actioning! In fact, if you don’t have a good periodic action list i.e. daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly etc you will find that waiting for people to come back to you becomes a convenient excuse for doing nothing.
It is not difficult to set up a simple 90 day action plan using a excel spreadsheet. Set out your weekly monthly and quarterly goals. There are 13 weeks and don forget there are 7 days (not five) in week. I find it best to reverse the order, so I set my goal or goals for the quarter and then work back to my weekly goals and then to the daily actions I am going to need to take to reach my goals. Commit to this action list and do not deviate. Distractions will arise each week so you will need to be completely disciplined. Stick to your guns here. Give a copy of your action to someone who know cares about your success and will make you accountable each week for meeting you objectives. Set up a convenient time to discuss each weeks achievements and the week ahead. Discuss both your success and importantly your failures. Why have you not undertaken certain activities or followed another course other than the one you committed? Be rational and listen to yourself as you respond, you will sometimes hear the guy with the excuse trying to get out. Don’t let him. As much as we hate to admit to it without an organized actionable list few of us would achieve very much at all. “Better offers” are presented every day you just have to learn to say NO. Do this religiously for 30 to 60 days and you will astonish yourself at what you can achieve in a day, a week and a month.
Until next time
Your, back to the list and into action, business coach